ok, gathering everything in one place..
if you are curious, these are the addons, dedicated cfg files, and tank names that i currently use:

all dedicated cfg files zipped:
dedicated cfg files for my servers

the different server addons: SSO aka server side only
ifrits tanks
KiLlEr's armageddon SSO
irrascible's 88 weapons and powerups SSO

other misc stuff : take a peek or i'll post pinkie pie again :)
the text file for my tanknames
TM players as tanknames blast from the past

i know LDA open sourced TreadMarks, so if someone is having issues connecting to my servers, it might be helpful to get the addons and try locally first. also, there are still a smattering of people that play online, so i wont be using the new version anytime soon. i'm old and tired, and i like my current setup as it is... time for my nap :)

toodles,
harmless

i suppose one final piece of information...

the ip addresses and port numbers...
port numbers
12307 -> ifrits ctf
12303 -> ras 88 weapons
12305 -> armageddon SSO
12300 -> default server

and not that i want to openly post my static ip address sort of thing
the ip address is the same, the port number is the only difference
so, here are links to screenshots that has the ip address:
default TM server
Ras 88 weapons and powerups
KiLlEr's armageddon SSO
CTF with ifrit tanks

toodles
harmless